Sade: A Once in a Lifetime Experience….

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For those of you who know about Sade and are HUGE fans of her such as I am then it’s pretty clear she is such an amazing talent all on her own. The minute she stepped on the music scene in 1984 with Smooth Operator off her album Diamond Life, the world knew she is something different and rare. Seeing her in concert would be such a treat but with her reclusivness and her willingness to tour only once every 10 years, seeing her would be hard but such a treat. To be honest this is what I admire about her, she’s not out there flaunting and feeding off her fame like so many other celebrities we see, constantly in the tabloids, destroying themselves with drugs and doing anything to get attention, to get in the camera. Sade rejects this type of fame and has said many times she does not release an album until she has something to say, something to sing about. This is great because you know the album she has spent a decade writing and producing is going to be a gem of all gems and so worth the wait. It has been ten years since she had released Lovers Rock and the same amount of time since she has been on tour and there had been plenty of fans (such as myself) that have been dying for her next album and next tour. I was determined if she came back with more music that was the time for my husband and I to go see her! We are both such huge fans and the privlige of seeing her would be once in a life time. Well the time finally came and Sade came back with Soldier of Love and let me tell you, worth the wait!! Each song is so different and so Sade.  She has stuck with her own unique sound and song writing that it never disappoints but with the release of the new album there wasn’t immediate talk of a tour, this had me nervous but very hopeful. Finally the word came down that she was going on tour in Europe… 18 months after the release of her album. No one else can pull off what she does by waiting that long after her album drops to take on a world tour, but she did it! I had been spending months on her website praying to see dates in Phoenix and I had no idea how much September 2, 2011 would change our lives….

We bought the tickets six months before she was to come to Phoenix and let me tell you those months dragged and went by fast at the same time… So the day finally comes and it doesn’t hit me until we are at US Airways Arena that we are not only getting to see her but John Legend! He’s a super performer by the way… Let me tell you, ten years has done NOTHING to Sade. What you hear on her albums is what you hear live and it was amazing! It was worth every penny every minute of waiting to get to see her. I would highly recommend that you go to the ends of the earth to see her live in concert. The set, the lights, her outfits were all perfect and honestly I wouldn’t change a thing about that show. It was simple, and even in that big arena she could make you feel she is just singing to you in a small venue… She put on a full two hour show and it felt like five minutes. You are engaged the whole time, hanging off every note, every song she sings. Sade I love you!!!

It was well worth the ten year wait for her next album and next tour. She may not tour again because she has said she doesn’t know how much longer she can sing the same songs… We are aware that this was a once in a lifetime event and so very thankful that we could be apart of it….

Turning on the Lightbulb

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So when was your lightbulb moment? When did you get sick of the current situation you’re in now and decided to make a real change? A lot of us have been or are in a situation now where we aren’t/weren’t happy and just didn’t know what to do! A good example (of course it has to do with health and fitness) is if you’re in a physical shape you are just not happy with. You feel tired, your joints hurt and other side effects that are not fun but what to do?? There are so many fads out there and “get skinny quick” products out there it can make your head explode! What to do what to do??? One day that light bulb will go off… You’ll get sick of not being in the shape you’re in, not being in the job you’re happy at, or in a relationship that’s doing nothing for you one day you will hit your threshold and take action! This is the best time, it’s like the blinders come off and you just know what to do.  You send out your resume for that job you’ve been wanting to get, or finally tell your relationship partner that it’s over or find a “soulmate”workout that you just love and are determined to drop those pounds and get to where you want to be! This can be such a moment of power for you! The moment where you say “enough is enough!” When this moment happens you find yourself forming new habits, making new friends, having healthier relationships and all kinds of life changing events happening. You may be scared at first because change is scary, it’s unfamiliar you don’t know what to expect or how others will react to it. What this is for you is a POSITIVE change. You will attract others that are interested in the same things you are, that are more supportive of you and your goals and just a more fulfilling relationship with people. This is a huge step at setting and achieving your goals. Just think if you are surrounded by people that are like “why do you want to lose weight?” “Why are you so into fitness?” You the naysayers?? It’s amazing how they can throw you off your goals, feed your fear and hold you back! If your lightbulb, your breaking point has happened, listen to that and make something happen! Never be afraid to be yourself! Break through those walls and achieve the goals that you have set for yourself!

I’m curious, when did your lightbulb go off and what did it go off about? What did you do about your situation that you wanted to change? I would love to hear about it! Again hitting the threshold of what made you so unhappy is always a good thing! Whether you want to get the last 10lbs off or lose 50lbs or get a new job, just remember that YOU CAN!! Anything you set your mind to can be done! Don’t listen to the naysayers, take it one day at a time and you will get there!

Remember I’m always listening 🙂

Yours in Wellness

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